A few more thoughts on family…

A few weeks ago I wrote about the division of labor in the home after talking about it in my sociology of family class. Today in class my teacher briefly mentioned the changing structure of family and the woman in the work force. Somewhat causally she mentioned that the workplace was become a more desirable place to be and less stressful then the home. She said people, women specifically, are “less drawn to the home and more drawn to work”. Is this really what society has come to? Are there seriously women and men, mothers and fathers that would rather go into work or work long hours then be home with their children? I cannot even imagine feeling like I would rather be at work then home with my family. No matter how much I love my job and am passionate about it, I would always see my family as my first priority.

The divorce rate doesn’t seem so strange when you think about how a partner is more drawn to spending time at work then at home. How is a marriage supposed to thrive or even survive when one or both of the partners would rather be at the office? Much less how are parents supposed to raise children in a healthy way?

I see the family as one of, if not the core unit of society. It is where children are first socialized, learn language and other basic skills and gain social norms and values. If the structure and integrity of the family is starting to deteriorate what does that say about the rest of society?

 

Just some thoughts to ponder, now back to studying! I cannot wait until finals are over and winter break is here!!!

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